28-12-2017, 05:28 AM
Hi.. This is a true story.. Im aman of age 33yrs unmarried.. Hail from small town of rajasthan.. & worked as it professional in mumbai.. Meri family mail 3 log hain mom & widow sister, main apne gaon koi 4 saal baad aaya tha kyonki main teen saal usa main raha tha for it project..my sis ZOHRA hum use pyar se munia kahate the , jaisa kee gaon main hota hai ladkiyon kee shaadi juldi ho jaati hai.. She was married at a age of 18 yrs. When she was in 12th stnd. & after 2 yrs wo vidhwa ho gai..wo abhi keval 23 saal kee thee, main jab usse mila to mujhe dekh kar wo bahut khush hui or mere seene se lag gayi... Wo ab bahut badi ho gayi thee... Jab main gaon se gaya tha to wo 1-17 saal kee bacchi thee...Widhwa behan patthar kee sil kee tarah hoti hai... Meri maan kee to sabse badi chinta ka karan thee wo, gaon main ladki wo bhi vidhwa aur agar us par wo behad sunder ho to kitni pareshani kee baat hoti hai aap samajh sakte ho aur us par ghar main keveal budhi maa ho use samhalne ke liye.Raat main hum sab baatein kar rahe the.. Maa boli beta tere liye kai acche rishte aayein hai.. Kuch photo hain tu jara ek baar dekh le, maine kaha main abhi shaadi nahi karunga pehale munia ka kuch socante hai..Maa: beta iska kya hoga.. Kaun karega issse shadi aur teri umar bhi nikal rahi hai tu hee settle ho ja.Main: nahi maa kamse kum munia graduation kar le kuch job karle, phir iskee kahin shaadi kee sochatein hai.Maa: beta kaun widhwa se shaadi karega..aur rahi padhai kee to gaon main vaise hee awara ladkon ne iske uthna bethna mushkil kar diya hai...sadak par nikal jaye to koi iski chunni kheencta hai.. Koi nauchata hai.. Beta main to ise chod kar ghar ke bahar bhi nahi ja sakti...Mian maa ka dard samajh sakta tha..Maine kaha maa main aisa karta hoon main munia ko apne saath mumbai le jata hoon aur wahin par ise kahin kisi professional course main admission karwa deta hoon..phir koi accha sa ladka dekh kar iskee shadi bhi kar denge mumbai is tarah kee koi problem nahi hogi..ZOHRA: haan maan ye theek rahega.. Wo mumbai jane ke liye bahut excited thee..Maan: haan beta ise le ja , ye apne pairon par khadi ho jayegi... Hum logon ne taiyari kari... Aur ZOHRA mere saath mumbai aa gayi..mumbai main mere paas bachlor accomandation thee.. Lekin hamari company family walon ko, 2 bed room flat bhee deti thee. Maine ZOHRA se puchan , kya hum aisa kar saktein hain on paper hum husband wife ban jaate hain.. Kyon ki mumbai is expensive city, yahan flat milna bahut mushkil hai..wo kuch chonk gayi.. Bhiya kya ye sahi hoga.. Maine kaha meri salary 30 k hai flat hee yahan 20k ka milega aur 2 lac deposit bhi deni padegi.. Phir hum kahan se aur expenses karegein like teri padhai.. Hamare paas koi chara bhi nahi tha , wo raaji ho gayi.. Hamne husband wife kee tarah kuch photo click karwai aur maine apni com. Main de diye ek hafte main mere ko 1 bhk flat mil gaya.. Hamne apne flat saja liya.. Aur maine ZOHRA ko samjha diya yahan kisi ko ye may batana kii hum bhai behan hain nahi to flat bhi jayega aur naukri aur badnami alag hogi.. Hum dono ne yahan jyada kisi ke saath interaction nahi rakha